For anyone curious about what goes down when a white guy ends up at a P. Diddy party, here’s the scoop! It’s not pretty, but you have to see the whole picture to believe it. Look, Matt’s barely hanging in there—he’s even drinking from a skull! And that guy over there? That’s James from Simian Mobile Disco, a legit DJ. DJs are supposed to keep the energy up, not pass out, but at one of Diddy’s parties? Well, he’s got everyone dropping like flies.
The word’s been going around about Diddy’s specific dress code and the type of guests he likes at his parties. And, honestly, the rumors just keep getting wilder! Diddy’s been tied to all sorts of scandals, but it seems he might have had a particular “type” he preferred in the crowd—a certain “milk” preference, as some put it. Supposedly, even 50 Cent wasn’t too thrilled with how Diddy treated his preferred guests. Why the rumored preference for white men? Hard to say, but it’s definitely a talking point.
There was even a moment when Diddy put his arm around me in a way that felt way too close—uncomfortably so, like it was crossing some personal boundaries.
In a recent update about Diddy, a former party planner who worked with him back in 2004 and 2005 shared some startling details. She wanted to stay anonymous but described the intense atmosphere women faced at his parties, mentioning strict standards around appearance, even down to weight checks. “We’d actually weigh the girls if needed,” she shared. “They had to be young and attractive, so I kept a scale close by to make sure they were around 140 pounds. If a girl was taller, there was a bit of flexibility—but no flab, no cellulite, minimal piercings or tattoos, and absolutely no short hair.”
She went on to say that women had a non-negotiable dress code: short dresses with high stilettos. No pants, jeans, or flats allowed. Each woman’s dress had to be barely long enough to cover, ideally mid-thigh or shorter, and with cleavage showing. High stilettos were a must, no exceptions. The planner also noted they didn’t verify ages, explaining, “It was a ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’ thing. I was young too, and honestly thought it was about the drinking laws.”
People who’ve seen over two dozen videos of these events, often linked to big occasions like the MTV Music Awards or the Super Bowl, report explicit scenes with women matching these descriptions. Some footage even shows Diddy himself participating, sometimes filming from his own perspective as he engages with the women.
There’s a lot of talk that Diddy has a preference for the types of guests he invites to his parties, reportedly favoring more white men on the list. This alleged preference might be one of the reasons why 50 Cent has had a beef with him for so long. Their rivalry actually goes way back to 1999, and it became pretty clear when 50 took a shot at Diddy in his song “How to Rob,” where he boldly claimed he’d steal Diddy’s then-girlfriend, Kim Porter.
Things heated up even more during the allegations surrounding Biggie Smalls’ death. In his track “Hip Hop,” 50 Cent seemed to suggest that Diddy knew more than he let on, rapping, “Who killed Biggie Smalls? Man, Puffy know who hit that man. He scared them boys from the West Coast gonna break him off.”
50 has also thrown shade at Diddy in a more playful way. Remember that time he posted a photo of Diddy and Rick Ross on stage? The angle made it look like they were about to kiss, which definitely raised some eyebrows. He didn’t stop there; he also shared a pic of Diddy in a pink shirt hugging a former record exec—who was also in pink—and captioned it, “I ain’t saying nothing, but something ain’t right.” You can see why these two have had such a rocky history!
You won’t believe this, but 50 Cent had a pretty awkward moment with Diddy. So, Diddy casually asked him if he wanted to go shopping, and 50 Cent was like, “Oh, hell no!” and just dipped out. Diddy was trying to hype him up at first, saying things like, “Yo, when are we going to hang out? We’ve gotta kick it.” Then he goes, “Why don’t we go shopping? I’ll pay for it.” And 50 Cent thought, “Nah, I’m not doing this.” Can you imagine? He was like, “Did this dude really just ask me to go shopping?”
Later on, Diddy addressed 50’s comments on The Breakfast Club, talking about the whole shopping situation at Chris Lighty’s wedding. Diddy said, “Yeah, I thought he could use some new clothes. What’s the big deal? I’m just being a nice guy. I don’t have any beef with 50; he loves me! Can’t you see that? You think that’s hate? Come on, after all these years, you know he’s got love for me.”
Since then, 50 Cent has been pretty outspoken, especially when it comes to calling out Diddy for his wild parties, which we now call “Freak Fests.” Take, for example, that all-white party hosted by Michael Rubin. It was packed with A-listers like Jay-Z, Kim Kardashian, and Kevin Hart. Lil Baby’s performance was definitely a highlight, but what really caught everyone’s attention were some photos from the party.
In one shot, Rubin was hugging Lil Baby from behind, and in another, Lil Baby was literally sandwiched between two other guys. So, of course, 50 Cent had to weigh in on that. He shared that hug photo on social media and wrote, “See, this is why I don’t go to no party with Puffy and them. What’s going on here? Get off my young ninja!”
50 Cent has been going hard at Diddy lately, especially after the feds raided his home. He took to Twitter to post photos of the feds and Diddy’s sons in handcuffs, saying, “Now it’s not ‘Diddy do it,’ it’s ‘Diddy done.’ They don’t come like that unless they’ve got a solid case.” He even joked about being willing to pay for the “Freak Fest tapes,” showing how he’s always ready to jump on any drama surrounding Diddy. In fact, he produced a whole documentary that shines a light on Diddy and his wild parties.
Interestingly, while Diddy has been known to host parties filled with people of all kinds, there are rumors swirling that he has a special preference for “milk”—meaning white men. And apparently, Leonardo DiCaprio is at the top of his guest list.
There are whispers suggesting that Diddy’s preference might tie back to the person who funded Bad Boy Records—someone whose name starts with a “C” and ends with a “D.” This individual is openly bisexual, and in his memoir, he shared that even though he’s been married and divorced twice, he’s had two long-term, monogamous relationships with men for over 20 years. He even mentioned that his first experience with a man happened during the Studio 54 era in the late ’70s, and he personally wrote that chapter of his book.
