Everyone around me sensed my deep discontent, yet no one could pinpoint its source. It seemed unfathomable to them that amidst what appeared to be a life of abundance, I could be so troubled.
Now, consider this notion, folks: What if our perceptions were skewed all along? What if it was Jada Pinkett Smith who felt trapped by Will Smith, not the other way around? Could that be the underlying message in Willow Smith’s response to the revelation of her parents’ separation since 2016? Because from Jada’s recent remarks, it appears she’s finally unburdened by the truth coming to light. And Willow seems to echo this sentiment, suggesting that her mother may have been the one held captive by her father.
Think about it: Prior to the disclosure, who among Jada and Will had been vocal about divorce not being an option? Well, you guessed it. It’s like, if divorce isn’t even on the table, then the thought doesn’t gain traction, right? It’s that straightforward. Just eliminate the possibility, because once it’s there, it’s only a matter of time before someone considers it. Will Smith, ladies and gentlemen. He essentially conveyed a similar sentiment to MTV News, stating, “Divorce cannot even be contemplated with Jada. I made a vow before God, ‘Till death do us part.’ So, there are only two outcomes: Either we remain together until death, or I meet my demise.”
So, it’s been speculated that perhaps Jada’s commitment to not considering divorce stems from Will expressing this stance first, leaving her to navigate it. Some suggest Will’s reluctance to divorce could be due to the absence of a prenup, potentially entitling Jada to a significant portion of his $350 million net worth. However, Will’s aversion to divorce predates his relationship with Jada, stemming from the pain of his first divorce. He once expressed, “Divorce was the ultimate failure for me. Yeah, I’ve been hurt a lot in my adult life, but I don’t think anything touches the failure of getting divorced from my 2-year-old son’s mother.”
Reports suggest Willow perceives her father as the one influencing and holding Jada within their marriage. Accordingly, while Jaden and Willow deeply love their mother and emulate many of her qualities, they’re reportedly relieved that the truth is now public, hoping it will facilitate healing and alleviate any lingering drama in their lives.
Insiders have witnessed the scrutiny their mother has faced due to recent events and express a hope for restored trust in her. They hadn’t anticipated such negativity directed at her but are determined to weather it together as a family. Another source, speaking to the Daily Mail, criticized Will and Jada for placing their children in a difficult position. The constant pressure to conceal their parents’ issues for seven years caused considerable stress, leading to frequent arguments among the siblings.
Regarding their allegiances, Willow reportedly harbors resentment towards Will, consistently siding with Jada. She strongly believes that contrary to public perception, her mother is the one who has felt trapped. This belief stems partly from Jada’s desire to disclose their separation in 2020, which Will allegedly opposed. Jada expressed her frustration during an interview with Kelly Ripa, mentioning her inclination to speak out after August Alsina discussed their “entanglement” with Angela Yee. Despite initially planning to address the matter alone on Red Table Talk, Will insisted on joining her. However, seeing his discomfort, Jada opted not to disclose the truth at that time.
The situation was tough for Will as he witnessed Jada endure a barrage of criticism and hate, despite not being his wife at the time. Insiders reveal it was particularly hard on their children, seeing their mother unfairly blamed for something rooted in falsehoods. Even the incident with Chris Rock was misconstrued, with Jada bearing the brunt of the blame despite Will’s involvement. Jada herself addressed the matter, explaining how she initially mistook the slap for a skit, only realizing its seriousness when Will returned to his seat. Despite their separation for seven years prior, she felt compelled to stand by him, remarking, “I didn’t come in here as your wife, but we, I’m leaving as your wife.”
While conversing, Jada expressed her incredulity at being accused of urging Will to slap Chris. She acknowledged not being surprised, given the narrative portraying her as unfaithful or adulterous. What was truly distressing, however, was Jada’s contemplation of suicide amidst the turmoil, compounded by Will’s reluctance to address the situation publicly. In an effort to cope, she turned to ayahuasca, a substance commonly used in spiritual ceremonies and healing practices. Yet, even then, Will seemed unwilling to abandon pretense. It’s important to note that their children were witness to this entire ordeal.
Despite Jada’s candid revelations, it appears she’ll remain entrenched in her marriage for the foreseeable future. During her revealing interview with NBC’s Hoda, Jada disclosed that she and Will have been living separately since 2016, yet divorce isn’t on the table. “I made a vow that divorce would never be an option for us. We’ll weather any storm together, and I’ve remained committed to that promise,” she explained. In a subsequent interview, Jada shed light on the current status of her relationship with Will, emphasizing their efforts towards reconciliation. “There’s no seeking another love elsewhere; that’s not the aim. We’re presently focused on deep healing and repairing the bond between us.”
Moreover, in a discussion with The Times, Jada hinted at a future scenario where she might move back in with Will to care for him in his later years. “I envision us eventually cohabitating again. Will’s aging, while I’m still vibrant, but it’s becoming clear to me that he’ll require support.” On The Late Show with Stephen Colbert, Jada affirmed that Will remains her partner. “There’s considerable interest in you and your family. Yeah, it surprised many to learn that you and your ex-husband are still… husband or ex-husband? He’s still… he’s still my… he’s still my man.”
There’s speculation swirling around suggesting that the absence of a prenuptial agreement might be the sole reason behind Will’s reluctance to divorce Jada, potentially jeopardizing his $350 million fortune. However, Jada recently shared that she feels liberated after disclosing that she and Will have been living separately since 2016. She expressed a sense of relief, stating, “It’s like a weight off my shoulders, honestly. It’s fascinating how a profound event like the Oscars can draw us closer together. Since then, we’ve delved deep and arrived at the beautiful place we are in now.”
It’s all rather bewildering, isn’t it? Perhaps Jada has been the one feeling confined all along. Reports suggest that Willow, too, is feeling a sense of release, seemingly convinced that her mother has been the one constrained. But here’s the real question: Could Jada be the one pulling the strings, or is it possible she’s been the one caught in a web of manipulation? I’m eager to hear your thoughts. Do you perceive Jada as the orchestrator, or do you see her as a potential victim? Share your insights in the comments below.
