“I’ve been single for the last six months, trying to figure out what life looks like now, closing one chapter and seeing if we can still be friends. I’ve been really clear about my boundaries and where we stand as friends.
But wait, did JR just say he and Tamar have been ‘friends’ for six months while she’s out here calling him out for cheating? What kind of mess is going on between Tamar Braxton and Jeremy Robinson? And let’s not act like Tamar’s just got ‘mental health issues’ out of nowhere. Have y’all seen this man? He’s been putting her through it, airing out their business and embarrassing her for the past six months.
Tamar, girl, we hate to say it, but didn’t we tell you JR was just going to keep humiliating you? Yet, you took him back, and now look where we are—your whole drama is blowing up on social media because this man was in a hotel with another woman, and he used your credit card to pay for it. Oh, absolutely not!
Here’s the thing about guys: when the truth comes out, they always try to flip the script. ‘Oh, she’s crazy,’ or ‘We weren’t even together,’ or ‘I didn’t lead her on, she did that on her own.’ How many times have we heard that tired story? So why are we still acting like it’s different this time?
Look, I’m in my 40s, I’ve been through my share of relationships, and I’ve heard it all. I’ve got male friends, and I know how these things go. So let’s not pretend anyone’s booking trips to Turks and Caicos or dropping serious money on someone without at least hoping for a reconciliation.”
Let me clear something up: I didn’t invite myself to any birthday parties. This person told me, right here at the St. Regis, “I want you to be a part of my birthday.” And now we’ve got Tommy Le getting dragged into this mess just because JR decided to enjoy her sandwich? We ended up married, and I’m supposed to be okay with the fact that you ate someone else’s food? Seriously?!
Tamar, please, we need you to exit this group chat because I’ve reached my limit. But since she’s already spilled all the tea, let’s talk about how she’s spiraling, all thanks to JR. So, Tamar jumped on Instagram Live to expose JR after the Four Seasons in New Orleans charged her credit card. She was confused because she wasn’t even there, so she called JR to figure it out. Apparently, he didn’t take the call too well, and the hotel told her the reservation was under Mr. Jeremy Robinson and his guest, Miss Jay.
Now, I don’t know what you expect me to do with that information, but when I asked JR about it, he got defensive and told me, “Go take your meds.” When I shared it online, I wasn’t trying to be shady. Tamar did some digging and later posted a screenshot of a woman’s Instagram profile, hinting that she was the infamous “Miss Jay.” Her caption? “Paid in my face for a 25-year-old. MH took my jewelry, took me to Turks, and had a whole [expletive] the entire time. I hate you, Jeremy Robinson.”
And just like that, the drama exploded. Not long after, Miss Jay (aka Jaylen H) clapped back in the comments of The Jasmine Brand’s post, saying, “There’s no tea here. None of this is true. These allegations are insane and come with consequences. Tamar, you’re wrong. Period.” She even laughed off the claims in her own post after a fan mentioned Tamar was dragging her into the drama.
But it didn’t stop there—JR also stepped in to set the record straight: “Go ahead and date whoever you want. I’ll date when I’m ready. I’m emotionally unavailable to you, and I’m physically unavailable. When the birthday plans came up, I wanted someone I consider family to be involved because, if you know her, she’s big on birthdays. I don’t lead people on; I’m straightforward. If what you’re doing comes with an agenda, I don’t want any part of it. I don’t want you involved in my birthday plans, and I don’t want you in Turks and Caicos. This isn’t about reconciliation. Whatever you do, it’s because we’re friends.”
This whole situation is seriously wild, so let me break it down slowly. Remember a few days ago when Tamar had that major meltdown before deactivating her social media? She went off, posting some explosive things on her ex’s page and calling her family toxic. In one of her now-deleted posts on X, she wrote, “You guys have no idea. Gaslighting is insane, and I’m going back into treatment. I just pray my marriage can be saved and my life can be spared. My family is awful.” Then in another post, she said, “I’m so mad at my life. My family is toxic. I should’ve never gone back to BFV.” Tamar also gave a shoutout to JR, saying, “JR means the world to me. Thank God for him. My husband and my children have saved my life.” But in the same string of posts, she left people confused when she also said she’s “sad and single.”
Turns out, Tamar was actually dropping hints about being single, because JR later fired back at Toni Braxton’s claims, saying it was all a misunderstanding—and yeah, he’s single. He explained that their credit cards share the same last three digits, which is what caused the booking mix-up. He also said the woman Toni called out on Instagram was just some random lady and denied being with her. JR said, “I’ve never misled Tamar Braxton, and I never will. You don’t go on social media and start attacking someone you claim to love or care about. Then you post pictures of you and my daughters, but you throw their dad under the bus? That’s not okay, honey.”
JR went on to say that he’s been single for six months and that his relationship with Tamar is over. They were trying to navigate a friendship, but he’s tired of the public attacks, which he says come from Tamar’s anxiety and delusional thoughts. He mentioned that he’s emotionally and physically unavailable to her, and throughout their relationship, he tried to protect her, even when she threw him under the bus.
He also confirmed that he did invite Tamar to Turks and Caicos for his birthday, as she mentioned, but it wasn’t to reconcile; it was because he still considered her family. As for the hotel mix-up, he said he was in New Orleans for a funeral and accidentally used Tamar’s card to book the room. But JR made it clear that they’re just friends now, so even if he was with someone else, it’s nobody’s business.
“So I get a call yesterday, and they’re like, ‘Hey, did you stay at the Four Seasons?’ I said, ‘Yeah, I did. I extended my stay, used my card, everything’s good. What’s going on?’ And they go, ‘Oh, I got a call about some woman using my card at the Four Seasons.’ I’m like, ‘That’s not even possible. What are you talking about?’ I thought we were friends, and we could talk about this. But honestly, it’s laughable. I wasn’t with anyone at the Four Seasons. I’m not seeing anyone. And even if I was, we’re friends—why would I hide that?”
JR wrapped up by saying, “I’ve been clear about my boundaries and my desire to just be friends. This whole situation has become crazy, and I’m tired of constantly defending myself.”
He acknowledged Tamar’s struggles with mental health but pointed out that the public accusations against him were not only hurtful but also false.
“Show some grace? Well, sometimes showing grace means standing up for yourself. I’ve always owned my mistakes and been open about how they’ve affected me and others. But I won’t sit back and let lies tear down me, my family, and everything I’ve worked for. So, here’s how I see it: I don’t know if JR was just defending himself or trying to make Tamar look unbalanced. The way he kept talking about her mental health seemed suspicious. If his goal was to make her seem unstable, it worked because now people are saying they’ve always thought something was off with her.”
Just when it seemed like things might cool down, Tamar went live on YouTube to share more about her relationship, marriage, and divorce from JR. She made it clear that she was the one who ended things, not him, and that she had blocked him everywhere, including social media.
“I want to set the record straight—no one broke up with me. I ended things. I blocked him everywhere. The only time I reached out was to ask about my credit card being used. Everyone knows this, so let’s not pretend otherwise. I don’t use Booking.com or whatever. I use my own card or book through my travel agency. So, we’re not going to act like there was some innocent mix-up. I thought you were single six months ago, so which is it?”
She went on, saying, “I don’t need to buy a man. I know who I am, I know how much I make, and I know my status. I don’t need to pay for a man’s attention. But if I’m investing in my relationship, in someone I want to rebuild with—because this wasn’t just my boyfriend—is that really wrong?”
Tamar made it clear she wasn’t planning on spilling everything but also wasn’t going to sit quietly while someone made her out to be unstable or delusional.
“This isn’t about me being ‘addicted to the white meat.’ It worked for what it was, but it’s not that deep. The truth is, I put too much into this because we were married, and I take my vows seriously. I thought you did too. I was waiting for you to step up like a husband.”
Tamar Braxton really threw some shade when she brought up Tommy Lee and flat-out called JR out for eating her sandwich. Remember when Tamar was going back and forth with Tommy, and Tommy hopped on Instagram with receipts? She set the record straight about a hangout with JR a month before he got back with Tamar.
Tommy was clearly frustrated, saying, “We’re Black women, Tamar. I know I’m not perfect, but I live too well to be dealing with this. I don’t need to keep explaining myself, but we’re letting someone else play with us. Tighten up, girl. I’m not your enemy. Your problem is trusting men like that.” Tommy admitted that while they had some issues, she started feeling bad about it when she realized how messy things were getting. “I’m at home with my man, laughing at this drama. He would never even talk to you.”
Tommy also shared that she had DM’d JR, complimenting his suits, which led to some flirty messages. According to her, JR booked a room at the Waldorf Hotel with his points, and they had a one-night stand. But that wasn’t all. Apparently, JR spilled all sorts of personal info about Tamar, claiming he had kicked her out of his Atlanta home and that she had to move back in with her mom. Tommy also said JR told her that Tamar’s “sold-out” tour wasn’t actually sold out, despite what she told her fans.
Tommy didn’t hold back: “JR, you don’t want me to expose you. You told me you kicked her out, that she went back to her mom’s house. Not the Tamar Braxton with the sold-out tour! He said it was all a lie. You’re flexing, Tamar, but he told me your shows weren’t sold out. He called you messy. And all this from a man I just met a week ago. If that’s your man, Tamar, you need to check him, not me.”
Despite Tommy’s warnings, Tamar took JR back, and now he’s embarrassing her again. What makes it worse is that she knows it. Tamar might feel like Tommy aired her out, but Tommy reminded everyone she was the one who blocked Tamar and cut her off first. She also made it clear that the divorce wasn’t just Tamar’s idea—it was a decision they made together, so Tamar needs to stop acting like she’s the one who left.
Fans are scratching their heads, wondering why Tamar, a beautiful, Grammy-nominated 47-year-old, is letting this irrelevant guy have such a hold on her. It’s hard to understand her choices at this point. Even Tamar has admitted she’s been a “fool in love” and recognizes how embarrassing the whole situation is. Here’s hoping she doesn’t go down this road again and learns to love herself first.
“After going live, she posted a story on Instagram saying, ‘If I’m really that mentally unstable, then why don’t you give me back my chain pendant and platinum Rolex? I couldn’t have been in my right mind, right, my friend?’
I’ll be sharing the full story on my channel in 30 minutes. Honestly, I should’ve listened to everyone from the start. Now it’s clear that I’ve been the one getting played all along.
This whole situation is just messy, to say the least. It’s sad because while Tamar is putting JR on blast for cheating with a 25-year-old [ ], Jeremy’s out here claiming he’s been single for six months. I understand JR wanting to clear things up and confirm he’s no longer with Tamar, but why is he trying to make her seem unstable and out of control for what she said? It’s coming across as gaslighting. The whole thing is ridiculous.
What do you think? Did Tamar handle this the right way? And what’s your take on Jeremy’s response? I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments.”
